Utilizing the Books of David Shannon in Play Therapy and as Parenting Resources

Utilizing the books of David Shannon
David Shannon is one of my favorite children’s author and illustrator.  I love is simple, child-focused pictures and story contact that is fun, yet usually has a great message for kids.  For this reason his books are also wonderful to use in play therapy and as resources for parents.  Here’s a list of David Shannon books and the messages within them can be utilized in play therapy and by parents:

  • The Rain Came Down … Sometimes when it rains, it pours.  Negative attitudes and reactions can cause a chain-reaction.  Eventually the storm will end the sun will shine again.
  • No, David! … Sometimes kids feel like they are always doing something wrong and getting yelled at.  Does that mean that their parents don’t love them?
  • David Gets in Trouble … Learning about taking responsibility for one’s actions and apologizing.
  • David Goes to School … Great for discussing basic rules at school.
  • How I Became a Pirate (by Melinda Long, illustrated by David Shannon) … Wonderful story of amazing imagination, but also briefly touches on the great things about being a kid and being part of a family.
  • Pirates Don’t Change Diapers (by Melinda Long, illustrated by David Shannon) …   A fun way to talk about adjusting to a new baby in the house.
  • A Bad Case of Stripes … This one is great for discussing somatic complaints, school refusal, and the importance of being yourself.  (click here for an activity I created to go along with this book!)

Do you have any suggestions of David Shannon books to use as a therapeutic or parenting resource?  I’d love to hear them!  Please leave me a comment!

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Creating Tape Town … having fun with ALEX toys

A few weeks ago I received some complimentary products from ALEX toys so that I could review them here on my blog.  WOOT!  The kids and I had a terrific time with them!  The first toy we would like to share with you is …

Tape Town Fun

The My Tape Town kit allows kids to use various craft materials in order to create their very own playscape.  Here’s what was included in the My Tape Town kit …

what's included… 2 large sheets of printed paper for the base/grass, 6 rolls of colored tape, 4 paper cups, a sheet of stickers, and several pages of cardstock cut-outs of cars, trees, and buildings.  FUN!!!  I just LOVE how colorful and playful this set is!  It definitely is inviting for child-centered play!

Here’s some snapshots of the creation of our own Tape Town …

 Honor tapes down a purple road Tree and Pond playing with Tape Town lining up cars for a party in Tape Town

Henry builds Tape Townplaying and building together

 

 

We used the tape to create roads, ponds, rivers, and embellish the trees and buildings.  We also found that it worked best to tape the trees and buildings down to the base paper because they fell over easily (especially with little unsteady hands moving the base paper around!).  This made the town more stable, but prohibited us from rearranging the town once they were taped in place.

taping down tape town

The kids and I worked on building Tape Town over a weekend coming back to the dining room table where it was set up to continue adding to the creation.  Honor (who’s almost 4) had difficulty working on the project by herself.  She found it frustrating at times because once the tape sticks to the paper products it won’t come off unless it rips the paper.  Because of this I worked closely with her while constructing the town.  Henry (who’s 7) was able to add and build to the town without much difficulty.

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We have kept Tape Town out on the table and my daughter continues to play with it … moving the vehicles around the town to “visit” different friends and family!  I love that this is a product that the kids were able to create with and then continue to use their imagination in using it as a play area.  I will also definitely keep this product in mind with work with my play therapy clients.  My Tape Town would be great for re-creating a neighborhood or city scene to process a life event. 

A very special thanks to ALEX toys for allowing us this chance to create, play, and review!

 

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Create an Alphabet Monster … letter learning fun!

Alphabet Monster

I’ve been realizing that my almost 4 year old needs more work on identifying the letters in the alphabet.  I saw an idea for making an Alphabet Monster Game from Little Family Fun.  So we made our own version with materials we had on hand!  Like an empty tissue box!  Which ALSO was perfect for JDaniel 4′s Mom’s 3rd Tissue Box Challenge!

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Making the Monster was SUPER simple.  All I did was attach a piece of pink duck tape to one side of the top of the box and fold it in half.  Then I used scissors to “fringe” the tape to look like hair.  I added a couple of large google eyes … and he was all set to chomp some letters.

Monster & Letters

For the letters we used the alphabet magnets we already had.  I have a set of upper case and lower case.  We started our first game with the upper case letter … I figure once she has better mastery of these we will use the lower case set.  Then, eventually, we will play with BOTH sets together.

I spread the letters on the floor and told my daughter that the monster was VERY hungry and only eats letters … BUT that he can only eat them if you say the letter’s name first.  She quickly picked out the letters that she already knew and feed them to the monster saying each letter name as she put them in.  To make the game fun and playful, I made sounds for the monster … like, “Ohhhh, I’m so hungry!” and gobbling noises after she put a letter in the box.  This received lots of giggles and silly smiles!

Although we are using the box for alphabet identification, he can EASILY be changed into a number or color monster!  The monster could also be used for sight or spelling words …  the possibilities for learning fun are endless!

What would you feed the Tissue Box Monster???

Tissue Box Monster for Learning

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Be True to Yourself … an activity to go along with David Shannon’s book “A Bad Case of Stripes”

being true to yourself
I was very excited that the Virtual Book Club for Kids picked David Shannon to be the featured author this month.  He is one of my favorite authors and illustrators of children’s books.  And my favorite book of his is ..

A Bad Case of Stripes It’s about a little girl so concerned about fitting in and not being labeled as different that she forgoes what she LOVES.  This only “covering” up who she really is … a she winds up with a very bad case of the stripes.  The cure … love what you love no matter what others may think.

I use this book frequently in my work as a child psychologist.  I have used it with kids that are anxious about going to school, kids that have frequent somatic complaints, and kids who need to increase their self-esteem.

I didn’t yet have an activity go along with this book, but the Virtual Book Club for kids and this great project idea from I Heart Crafty Things inspired me to create this activity that can be used at home with your kids OR as an activity in play therapy.

  • Take a cute photo of your kid.
  • Use a photo editing program to make the photo black and white.
  • Print it out on a full size paper.

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  • Cut your kid out.

cut out kid

  • Paste your kid on a plain white sheet of paper (I used card stock)
  • pasted kid
  • Make several copies of your cut-out kid pasted on the paper. (that way you don’t have to do that whole process again if you or your kid wants to do the activity more than once!)
  • Then have them color and create their own stripes … or whatever …Honor's True Colors

I had my hand at it, too. (side note: it was a GREAT way to test old markers out to see if it was time to pitch ‘em).  Then I wrote down all the things that she loves … and makes her HER!

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I look forward to using this activity in play therapy too!  Make sure to check out all the great ideas linked up below in this months’s Virtual Book Club for Kids!
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Do you have a David Shannon book?  I’d love to have you join the blog hop!  All you have to do is…

  1. Pick a David Shannon book to read with your child!
  2. Do any activity, craft, cooking project, or other book inspired activity that goes along with the book your chose.
  3. Share what you did with us starting Monday, April 15th. We will have a linky up for 3 weeks where you can share any blog posts (if you are a blogger) or you can post what you did at the end of the linky post in the comments or on our Facebook wall.

I can’t wait to see all of your fabulous ideas! Thanks for participating!

For more updates and to see loads of the posts by participating bloggers, head on over and “Like”our Virtual Book Club for Kids Facebook page.

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The ABCs of Craftulate … and this week’s Kids Co-Op Linky!

It’s always fun for me to read over the answers of ABCs I receive.  I love finding new things about bloggers I know, getting to know bloggers I didn’t know, and realizing connections I have with them.  That’s my favorite part.  Like today’s feature … I love that George from Craftulate and I both like to start the day off with a Diet Coke, are 5’1″, and love penguins!  I also LOVE her favorite quote.  Me and some of my friends “IRL” are know to say that quite often!  So, make sure to read over George’s ABCs and check out her blog filled with fun crafts for kids that don’t make too much of a mess!

 The ABCs of 

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Age 36
Beverage of Choice Champagne
something you’d like to Change in your Life Move back home to the UK (lived in US for 3 years)
favorite Diversion Reading kid craft blogs!
Essential start of the day Diet coke
Favorite Color Black and white combo
Favorite Game Lego Harry Potter on PC or XBox!
Height 5′ 1″
favorite Ice Cream flavor Ben & Jerry’s Phish Food
Beloved piece of Jewelry Engagement ring
Kids (names & ages) One son, “F”, turns 2 April 2013
Where do you Live Illinois, US
Favorite Movie(s) Harry Potter 1-7
Nickname George
Occupation SAHM, previously in medical publishing
a weird thing in your Purse/bag A pacifier case with no pacifier!
favorite Quote “What can go wrong?”
Right or left-handed Right
Siblings None, but I have half-sisters, step-sisters and a step-brother
Time it takes to get ready 15 minutes
Unusual Fact I have only worn black, white and denim clothes for the last 4 years!
Best Vacation Private boat cruise with friends down the Nile
What makes you late My son refusing to put socks on!
Xrays you’ve had Only at dentist I think
Yummy food that you make Low carb choc mint ice cream
favorite Zoo animal Penguins

And now for this week’s Kids Co-Op linky!

The Weekly Kids Co-Op



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Books to Help Children Understand Divorce

Books about Divorce

Here’s a list of books for kids about divorce.  I use these in play therapy and recommend them to parents when the family is going through a divorce.  If you have some to add, please leave a comment below!

  • The Family Book, by Todd Parr … a great way to begin the discussion that there are many different types of families.
  • Dinosaurs Divorce, by Laurene Krasny Brown & Marc Brown … this is always my “go-to” book when discussing divorce with kids.  It’s kinda lengthy, but use it as a resource books to talk about different aspects of divorce as they come up.
  • The “D” Word, by Julia Cook … At first Otis can’t even say the D word, but then he learns the 3 C’s of divorce (he didn’t Cause it, he can’t Control it, and he will learn to Cope with it).
  • Charlie Anderson, by Barbara Abercrombie … a wonderful story about two sisters, a cat, and discovering that having 2 homes isn’t necessarily a bad thing.
  • A Smart Girl’s Guide to Her Parent’s Divorce:  How to Land on Your Feet When Your World Turns Upside Down (American Girl), by Nancy Holyoke …    Geared for girls nine and older, the book covers varies aspects of divorce.
  • Was it the Chocolate Pudding? A Story about Divorce for Little Kids, by Sandra Levins … highly recommended book that stresses divorce is NOT the children’s fault
  • Divorce is Not the End of the World: Zoe’s and Evan’s Coping Guide for Kids, by Zoe and Evan Stern … written by a brother and sister, this book is geared toward kids aged 8 and up to help them navigate the changes a divorce brings.
  • It’s Not Your Fault, KoKo Bear, by Vicki Lansky … simple book for parents to read to younger children about the subject of divorce.
  • I Don’t Want to Talk About It, by Jeanie Franz Ransom … a picture book that describes many emotions that a young girl feels when she finds out about her parents’ divorce.
  • Two Homes, by Claire Masurel … a simple book for young kids about how there will be difference in both homes, but in each they will be loved.
  • Standing on My Own Two Feet, by Tamara Schmitz … focuses on the unconditional love the remains for the child.
  • Best of Both Nests, by Jane Clarke … a little bird comes to terms of living in 2 separate nests.
  • Fred Stays with Me, by Nancy Coffelt and Tricia Tusa … the book discusses divorce from a child’s point of view.
  • Mom and Dad Glue, by Kes Gray … a great book to help kids understand that divorce isn’t their fault.
  • My Family’s Changing, by Pat Thomas … written by a psychotherapist to help explain divorce to preschool aged children.
  • Mom and Dad Don’t Live Together Anymore, by Kathy Stinson … addresses questions, fears, hopes, and dreams of children going through divorce.
  • My Parents are Divorced, My Elbows Have Nicknames, and Other Facts about Me, by Bill Cochran … a lighthearted book about having divorced parents doesn’t make you weird.
  • What Can I Do?, by Danielle Lowry … illustrates the cycle kids go through when their parents divorce.
  • When Mom and Dad Divorce, by Emily Menendez-Aponte … a spiritually based book to help kids with the conflicting emotions they may feeling when their parents get divorced.
  • Goodnight, Daddy, by Angela Seward … this is not for typical divorce situations, but geared toward helping a child deal with having an absent parent.
  • When Mom and Dad Separate, by Marge Heegaard … a workbook for kids to help them sort out their feelings regarding the divorce.
  • My Mom and Dad Don’t Live Together Anymore, by Judith Rubin … a drawing book to help children cope with divorce.

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The ABCs of Bonbon Break … and this week’s Kids Co-Op linky!

It’s Friday!  WooHoo!  Need a break?  How about a Bon Bon Break?  Great name for a blog, right?!  This week I’m featuring Val Curtis one of the co-founders of Bon Bon Break where the mission “is to introduce exceptional blogs in an easy and fun format for busy moms.”  Pure awesomeness.  Here are …

The ABCs of Val frombonbon break

Age 40
Beverage of Choice Cosmo with frozen berries
something you’d like to Change in your Life My bank account status
favorite Diversion Weeding
Essential start of the day Morning snuggle with my littles
Favorite Color Purple
Favorite Game Cribbage
Height 5’6″
favorite Ice Cream flavor Mint Chip
Beloved piece of Jewelry Quetzal earrings from Monteverde, Costa Rica
Kids (names & ages) Cole – 5 Kate – 2
Where do you Live San Juan Island, WA
Favorite Movie(s) It’s a tie: Breakfast at Tiffany’s and The Graduate are the standards, but I just saw “Anna Karenina” and it was brilliantly done. Loved it.
Nickname Coco
Occupation CEO of Bonbon Break Media, LLC and Domestic Goddess
a weird thing in your Purse/bag I don’t own a purse. I know weird. But I have 7 years worth of movie ticket stubs in my wallet.
favorite Quote Live life on a limb, that is where the fruit is.
Right or left-handed Right (in a house of 3 lefties)
Siblings Half sister
Time it takes to get ready 5 minutes to get out the door – 30 for shower to a night out
Unusual Fact Lived aboard our sailboat for 3 years and I can’t wait to move back once the kids leave the nest
Best Vacation Costa Rica
What makes you late My kids…always
Xrays you’ve had Knees
Yummy food that you make Key Lime Pie Ice Cream
favorite Zoo animal Giraffes, I love their eyeslashes and their funny lips

And now for this week’s Kids Co-Op linky!

The Weekly Kids Co-Op



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Using Water Beads in Play Therapy

Water bead in Play Therapy
When I entered into the blogging world in the summer of 2011 I was first introduced to the world of water beads.  An amazing substance of gel-like beads that grow or shrink depending how much water they are with … wonderful for sensory play.

I just had to try it out!  I picked some up at Michael’s (they call them water gems) … in the flower and vase section.  I bought a couple different colors of the already hydrated beads and was excited to try them out with my kids.  Both of them thought they were really cool … but my then 2 year old LOVED playing with them.  And still, now almost 4, will play for an extended period of time (WOOT!) with a large bowl filled with the water beads, a couple small cups, and/or a spoon!  We have found tons of different ways to play with them (but that’s another post for another time).

blue water beads in water

I think they are way too cool … they feel so amazing in your hand.  Very relaxing. Soothing.

However … they are also messy and can be VERY dangerous.  They are messy because they are like small little bouncy balls that WILL bounce off the table onto the floor and then who knows where.  (and, of course, this bouncing is extremely entertaining to your children … so some limits may need to be set, like “The water beads need to stay in the bowl.”)  They can be dangerous because they are small and could be very tempting to put into your mouth if you are a young child.  Not only can they be a choking hazard if swallowed … but they can cause life threatening blockages in someone’s digestive system. So … take care and as ALWAYS supervise children during play!

That being said I have LOVED introducing water bead play during play therapy.  I believe it to be very safe because I’m not using it with children under 4 years of age AND I am there playing one-on-one with them.  The way I have introduced water beads is as a part of child-centered play therapy where the water beads have become just another option of a resource they children can use (just like the dollhouse, sand tray, blocks, etc).  I use a shoe box size plastic bin (with a lid to cover up when the play is done) for one container of the “water gems” from Michaels.  

water beads in my play room

It has been interesting to see what this different type of play has elicited …

  • Organization and control based play.  One client chose to use the water beads by separating them by size into different plastic cups demonstrating her need to feel in control and reduce chaos in her life.
  • Anger Management.  Another client created a game with the water beads where he would squish/destroy the water bead while telling me something he was angry about.
  • Soothing and Calming.  Several clients have agreed with my sentiments that if is very relaxing to just run your fingers through the beads.  The sensory experience can have a calming effect.  I have found that allowing the children to play with the water beads sometimes helps them to open up and talk more freely.
  • Triggering.  Although some find the sensation soothing, other clients may find the experience to trigger past trauma (particularly sexual abuse).  This is true for a variety of sensory experiences that therapists should always be cautious.
  • Small World/Imaginary/Representative Play.  Water beads are an excellent medium for imaginary play or recreating one’s world.  Just like sand tray, clients can use water beads and miniatures to “play out” what is happening in their lives, past events, fears, and hopes for the future.
  • Confidence building/Mastery Play.  Some children found being able to crush the water beads very powerful.  One child created a mastery game of bouncing the water beads off the carpet to see if he could get them back into the bin.

And finally, here’s what one of my clients had to say about playing with the water beads (it’s just so cute, I had to share!) … “This is the BEST ever!  I’d give up all my toys for these!”

water beads and glass gems

If you’d like to know more about water beads and how kids can play with them, check out these great posts ….

Also, if YOU have used water beads in play therapy I’d LOVE to hear how you have used them.  Please leave a comment or email me!!!

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Easter in a Jar

Easter in a Jar

I’ve been pretty busy this month … so I didn’t get my Easter shopping done until today.  But even so I was able to quickly put together this cute Easter gift.  I got this super cute and simple idea from Dixie Delights.  All you need is …

Easter in a Jar supplies

… a pint size glass jar, a chocolate bunny, mini eggs (or jelly beans), and grass (I used edible grass!).  Then you put all the items in the jar!  I also cut out a paper circle to place inside the lid …

Easter label

HOPPY EASTER!

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The ABCs of of Simple. Home. Blessings. … and this week’s Kids Co-Op linky!

I’m happy this week to feature Leah of Simple. Home. Blessings.  a blog that focuses on “meaningful homemaking without fussiness”.  On her blog you can, “Look for posts about anything related to homemaking: meal planning, meal prep, income, cleaning, planning the day, saving money, and child rearing … But also keep an eye out for topics related to the emotional and spiritual health of our home like: reading, nurturing relationships, and devotions.”  I hope you enjoy …

 The ABCS of Simple. Home. Blessings.

Simple. Home. Blessings.

Age 32
Beverage of Choice Grande in a Venti, Iced, Decaf Vanilla Latte, with extra ice
something you’d like to Change in your Life Time would stop each time I laid down to take a nap. That way I could be well rested AND get things done.
favorite Diversion Reading Entertainment Weekly (literally cover to cover); puzzles
Essential start of the day coffee, Bible study
Favorite Color gray
Favorite Game Roulette (I love to watch the wheel spin!)
Height 5’3″
favorite Ice Cream flavor Blue Bell Homemade Vanilla
Beloved piece of Jewelry wedding ring (don’t wear anything else, unless it is a special occasion)
Kids (names & ages) Lillian “Grace” (21 months), Autumn “Wren” (5 months)
Where do you Live Southern California
Favorite Movie(s) Life is Beautiful
Nickname I really have never had one
Occupation homemaker
a weird thing in your Purse/bag um..I am a mom to 2 girls under two, everything in my bag is weird
favorite Quote Behold, these are the fringes of His ways.
Right or left-handed right
Siblings one brother, 2 step-brothers, 2 step-sisters
Time it takes to get ready 15 minutes
Unusual Fact All our important family days are on the 11th of the month (anniversary and daughters’ birthdays)
Best Vacation Cayman Islands beach house
What makes you late running back into the house 5 times to get “one more thing”
Xrays you’ve had back (for scoliosis)
Yummy food that you make I make a really good pumpkin cheesecake with a gingersnap crust.
favorite Zoo animal I love the big cats!

And now for this week’s Kid’s Co-Op linky!

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